Here’s something I’ve never understood. When a guy cheats on his wife/girlfriend, why does she always blame the other woman and not the man?
The man is the one who made promises to her. Commitments to her. He’s the one who is supposed to treat her with respect. He’s the one who claims to care for her.
But the wife/girlfriend always attacks the other woman. As if the guy is a powerless pawn in the evil other woman’s plot to steal him away.
Ladies, that “other woman” doesn’t have any commitments to you. She never made promises to you. Heck, she might not even know you exist. Or “your man” may have told her how unhappy he is and that he’s on the brink of leaving you.
But somehow, you make her the object of your fury. Not him. Never him.
I don’t understand. What’s going on in your mind? He’s the one who broke your heart, broke your trust, broke your relationship. Not her. She doesn’t even have a relationship with you.
And yet you will go to the ends of the earth to win back “your man.” The man who lied, cheated, and hurt you. Why? Why do you want someone who disrespects you?
And you’ll demonize that woman. Call her a slut and a whore. But him, what about him?
He’s a liar, a cheat, scum of the earth. But you’ll look beyond that.
Is it that scary to be alone? Or is it that you can’t bear to lose him because you’ve already lost all your self-respect?